Reasons and Excuses

There are reasons and excuses. At the end of the day, only results matter.

You didn’t get that thing done because something happened along the way. What happened was a reason or excuse. Reasons are circumstances beyond your control while excuses are entirely your fault. Go ahead, point your finger elsewhere and continue to deny the possibility it could ever be your fault.

If each planned step of a project is completed with exacting precession, the plan works flawlessly.  Perfect execution seldom happens.

When results suffer, an explanation is expected. That explanation is comprised of reasons and excuses. To be honest, most leaders don’t want to hear anything except the project was complete. A twenty minute story is a waste of twenty minutes when the objective was not met. They will only remember it wasn’t done – not the details. So, your time is better spent getting to done.

Reasons make you feel better because it feels like you are getting a pass. After all it wasn’t within your control. You believe there was no way to influence the outcome. The part wasn’t delivered in time. The vendor didn’t meet their deadline. The business didn’t ask for that feature. It required new technology.

The result doesn’t change because of the reasons. You didn’t get that thing done.

Excuses are uncomfortable because you have to explain what you didn’t do or did wrong. Excuses require integrity and self-accountability to be educational. Not acknowledging your failures will make you habitually ineffective. I’m sure you can make up your own excuse examples.

The result doesn’t change because of the excuses. You didn’t get that thing done.

Which are you going to use? I don’t really care. Neither is effective. Neither help accomplish the goal. Neither will change the outcome.

I started writing this entry two weeks ago. I have both reasons and excuses why it took so long. I bet you don’t care to hear them.

At the end of the day, only results matter.

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Today, I am XL

Today is that day that wasn’t a big deal until yesterday.  You know… the day you turn XL.

I found myself in a state of constant reflection yesterday.  The only thing I really decided was to start a blog.  I’ve wanted to write for years and never made the time.  “There are reasons and excuses; at the end of the day only results matter.”  I said it hundreds of times and have heard it even more.  The result is I have had thoughts and never took the time to write them down.

I believe there are four elements that need to be in order for a life to be fulfilling:

  • Relationships
  • Finances
  • Health
  • Spirituality

My writing will consider those elements as I discuss:

  • Leadership
  • Software Development
  • Family
  • Sports
  • Homeschooling
  • Product and Book Reviews
  • Politics (occasionally)

I plan to use the blog as a means to practice some of the writing principles my oldest son is learning from The Institute for Excellence in Writing

When my dad was XL, I was a junior in High School and he was retired from the Army.  Retired and starting a second career.  Now that I’m XL he retired from his second career last year.

“When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand
to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished
at how much the old man had learned in seven years.”
~ Mark Twain attributed by Reader’s Digest, Sept. 1937

I was amazed at how much he knew about the practical things in life.  Those things taught in The Dangerous Book for Boys.  He could build amazing things, large and small, from wood.  There were a 1000 uses for a coat hanger.  He could rebuild a car – even the ones I wrecked.  He made great pizzas from scratch.  He bowled a couple perfect games.  He ran a bowler’s pro shop.  Don’t tell him I told you but he could even sew.  Okay, I’m still amazed.

My dad was always busy doing something.  He was always helping someone fix “that thing.”  He had a ToDo list he is still working through today.  He did the best he could to provide for our family.

That’s what I’m doing… the best I can.  Ten years in the Air Force got me on my way.  I went to some interesting places, worked on some great systems, and grew up a lot.  The last ten years have been practicing software and leadership in the retail spaces of clothing and fitness.

I’m married to my high school sweetheart.  We have two wonderful boys.  We have amazing friends.  We attend a great church.  We facilitate Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace course.  I lead a 12-person software development department for a $100 million fitness company using Microsoft technologies.

I have a blessed life and today, I’m XL.

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